Civility breakdown undermining America’s democracy, expert tells audience

by Jim McLean, Kansas News Service

Progressives deride supporters of President Donald Trump as willfully ignorant reactionaries, even racists.

Fans of the president respond in kind, dismissing liberals as snowflakes and worse.

The escalating war of words is a clear and present danger to American democracy, said Carolyn Lukensmeyer, executive director of the National Institute for Civil Discourse, in a presentation sponsored by the Topeka-based Sunflower Foundation’s Advocacy in Health speaker series.

“Civility is an essential ingredient in a free democracy,” Lukensmeyer said Wednesday to an audience at the University of Kansas in Lawrence. “Our system is dependent on the capacity to absorb, assimilate and productively deal with difference.”

Incivility leads to certain groups of people being treated as “others to the point we don’t respect them as human beings,” she said.

Lukensmeyer, who holds a doctorate in organizational behavior, is a former White House consultant and chief of staff to former Ohio Gov. Richard Celeste, a Democrat who served from 1983 to 1991.

The current level of hostility in the nation’s political discourse rivals that of the Civil War era, Lukensmeyer said, warning that it will take decades to rebuild the social norms being destroyed in the wake of Trump’s election.

“Seventy-five percent of Americans believe that incivility is now a crisis, and about the same number believe it’s lowering our stature around the world,” Lukensmeyer said.

The ocean of special interest money in American politics and the gerrymandering of congressional districts have created structural barriers to solving the incivility crisis at the national level, Lukensmeyer said. But, she said, individuals and communities can and must start tackling the problem on their own.

“The one thing we all can control is how we behave in our own lives,” Lukensmeyer said, noting that in addition to providing civility training to state lawmakers across the country, the institute she heads has developed toolkits to help individuals and groups engage more productively.

One of the “conversation kits” available on the institute’s website is designed to help families navigate potentially fraught discussions at the Thanksgiving table. Called “Setting the Table for Civility,” the kit aims to promote respect over the upcoming holiday season by helping people with disparate views talk and, more importantly, listen to one another.

Jim McLean is managing director of the Kansas News Service, a collaboration of KCUR, Kansas Public Radio, KMUW and High Plains Public Radio covering health, education and politics. You can reach him on Twitter @jmcleanks. Kansas News Service stories and photos may be republished at no cost with proper attribution and a link back to kcur.org.

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Friends of Yates’ annual benefit gala to be Dec. 9

Friends of Yates will celebrate 104 years of service by holding the “Holiday At The Apollo” annual meeting and Benefit Gala at 11:30 a.m. Dec. 9 at the Jack Reardon Convention Center, 520 Minnesota Ave., Kansas City, Kansas.

This year’s event will showcase the many programs and services that attribute to the continued success of Friends of Yates, according to a spokesman.

This agency continues to serve, build, and sustain a caring community by providing social and educational services for children, youth, adults, and senior citizens throughout the greater Kansas City area, a spokesman stated.

Friends of Yates has been able to continuously provide quality vital services to the community, including emergency-transitional shelter for victims of domestic violence and their dependent children for more than a century.

They recently completed the renovation of the Della Gill-Joyce H. Williams Center for victims of Domestic Violence, increasing shelter capacity from 22 to 42. It is truly the help and support from community contributors that allows Friends of Yates to continue to thrive, the spokesman said.

To commemorate the achievements for 2017, the Friends of Yates Board of Directors will hold the Holiday at the Apollo annual meeting and benefit.

At the gala there will be a social hour for guests to mix and mingle, a lunch complete with dessert, a silent auction with items for a variety of bidders, and live entertainment.

Throughout Friends of Yates’ 104-year tenure, it has been diligent in its commitment to innovative and holistic community programming, the spokesman said. In spite of the economy or changing population, Friends of Yates has maintained excellence without sacrificing quality, as substantiated by continued analysis of its program outcomes and testimonials of those whom it has served, according to the spokesman. Friends of Yates is a viable part of the Kansas City metropolitan area’s rich legacy and heritage.

For tickets and further information about Friends of Yates’ Holiday at the Apollo annual meeting and gala, contact the office at 913-321-1566.

– Information from Durriyyah Anderson, community outreach educator, Friends of Yates

Sideswipe crash reported on I-70

A sideswipe crash was reported at 9:20 a.m. Friday, Nov. 10, on westbound I-70, east of K-7 in Wyandotte County, according to a Kansas Turnpike Authority trooper’s report.

A Dutchstar Motorhome and a Ford Taurus were westbound on I-70 when the vehicles sideswiped, the trooper’s report stated.

The Taurus lost control and hit the barrier wall, according to the report.

The driver of the Taurus, a 68-year-old Kansas City, Kansas, woman, had a possible injury and was taken to the hospital, the report said.

The driver of the motor home, a 75-year-old man from Sioux Falls, S.D., was not injured, according to the report.

The motor home, the Taurus and the barrier wall were damaged in the crash, the trooper’s report stated.